No Judge

 

A friend living in Australia had a boyfriend in Indonesia. They planned that after my friend returns to Indonesia, they would marry each other.

But then I saw on my friend's Instagram story, she was with another guy already. So I asked her, "Did you break up with your boyfriend?"

"Yes. It was so sad. But I think I can't do long distance relationship."

"I see."

"I met my new boyfriend here. My friend introduced him."

"I see."

"No, I lied! I met him on Tinder!" She continued, "I know you are open-minded person, so I will tell you all the stories."

Then she continued to tell me everything. That time, she hadn't told to any of her close friends because her friends might judge her.

Another friend, a guy, out of blue, he sent me a message. He is more like brother to me. 

"I'm still virgin, what should I do?"

"I DON'T CARE! Why you tell me this?"

"I feel like I can tell you anything. I told you everything and you never judged me."

I'm not sure if it is because I do not judge or what but yes, I don't say anything if my friends tell me story. Seems that people just want to share what they feel without anyone judge them. They just want other to listen.

I judge people --and I think judging people is nature. But when my friends tell me story, I will just listen and pay attention.